Yes, I do. I've been where you are. However, once the bad thing happened to this person, I put it in her in my past. And a huge wave of INDIFFERENCE came over me.
FWIW there is a German word - schadenfreude - which comes up when I am reading. Schadenfreude means pleasure at another's misfortune. Have I ever felt schadenfreude - yes. And I'll let that stay there.